5 Places to Stick Unwanted Holiday Houseguests



) -- Maybe this is the year.

Maybe this is the time you don't make a last-minute run to the strip mall to get some cheap towels. Maybe this is when your washer and dryer take a breather instead of earning holiday pay. Maybe this is the time to stop playing executive chef and event coordinator for days on end and enjoy the holiday for yourself.

Maybe this is the holiday season you ask the family to stay somewhere else ... or stay there yourself.

A good old-fashioned family Christmas doesn't have to reach

National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation

proportions to get uncomfortable. Prolonged exposure to your family's idiosyncrasies and the regression of some of those family members into their not-so-lovable roles from years past can grate on even the happiest of hosts.

A survey by vacation rental website


last year found that 22% of holiday hosts think their guests overstay their welcome after a day or less. About 29% of hosts would kick their visiting sibling out of the house this holiday season if they could, while 22% think it's time for their grown child to make his or her own plans for accommodations.

Not that those guests are exactly grateful for the free place to stay when they get it. Of the 38% of holiday travelers who planned to stay with a friend or family member on Christmas last year, 64% percent werent thrilled about it. A full 29% say weren't looking forward to the lack of personal space, 28% dreaded the guest mattress you view as an afterthought and 5% said you or the other relatives hanging around the house this holiday season are enough of a problem on your own.

Is it any wonder about a third of hosts have had it with their holiday guests after only a few days, while 51% of holiday travelers feel stressed out by the whole ordeal? Granted, HomeAway has a stake in these results and is trying to get you or your relatives into a vacation rental, but at least a survey conducted by Hilton's Embassy Suites yielded similar results: Roughly 65% of holiday houseguests saying they feel generally uncomfortable staying as a guest in their relative's homes around the holidays.

Nearly 66% would consider using an excuse to get out of it, including faking sickness (38%), lying about their snoring volume (10%), feigning pet allergies (10%) or issuing warnings about their nonexistent sleepwalking (4%).

Hosts, meanwhile, aren't exactly enamored with their chosen gig. Roughly half say their guests wear out their welcome in five days or less. A full 71% shared stories about less-than-ideal guest behavior including messiness (50%), crankiness (31%), insatiable eating (24%), indifference to activities (19%) and an acute lack of self-awareness that leads them to bring uninvited guests over (24%). For 55% of hosts, it just gets awkward. Guests sleep forever 26%, snore like dying alligators (20%), clog the toilet (a gross 16%) and use all of the hot water (13%).

Just stop it. HomeAway and Embassy Suites are biased but have a point -- staying with friends and relatives takes an emotional and psychological toll that can offset just about any amount you're saving on accommodations. Yes, other lodging costs money, but it's nothing compared with therapy hours or legal fees. It's not a cop-out, it's a grown-up bed. It's a television showing something other than your uncle's favorite reality show or polarized news channel. It's a few hours each day of decompression and relaxation -- of needed escape. If you can't sell your family members on the following options, at least consider them for your own sanity.


About 21% of all travelers who say they'd shell out extra money for roomier accommodations this holiday season. That pairs quite nicely with the 20% of Christmas travelers who told HomeAway that they'd prefer to stay at a hotel last holiday season and the 70% of Embassy Suites respondents who said they'd consider a hotel if they didn't think it would offend their family members.

Hey, at least some of them aren't among the 64% who'd rather take a vacation somewhere else over the holidays than stay with family.

A full 86% of those who responded to a survey by


and and

American Express Publishing

this year would prefer to stay at a hotel when visiting family, but only 72% are going to do so. Guilt is strong, but tight holiday finances are even stronger.

The Orbitz and American Express survey notes that airfare and hotel prices have jumped in Top 10 holiday destinations including New York (10% more for airfare than last year and 12% more for a place to stay), San Francisco (9% and 11%), and Orlando (11% and 27%) and Fort Lauderdale (12% and 17%). As a result, 51% booked early to save cash while 39% traveled on off-peak days. A full 62% opted to forgo gifts to cover travel expenses.

It doesn't always have to get that drastic. Experts from travel sites including Travelocity and FareCompare also suggest looking into airfare-and-hotel packages to save a little cash. You won't save much on the flight, but hotels will often cut the prices on their rooms to sweeten the deal.

Vacation rentals

HomeAway puts out its holiday survey every year because it knows it offers a viable option. Whether you're scoping out a larger house for the whole family or just trying to get a cabin away from the rest of the relatives, there's a way to have a home for the holidays without either imposing or holing up in a hotel.

While the percentage of HomeAway users who'll stay at a vacation rental is roughly even with those who'll stay at hotels during the Thanksgiving holiday, a whopping 31% will pick a rental house or apartment for their Christmas vacation destination of choice. They can be a great value if you fit enough people into multiple bedrooms, they have kitchens that won't force you to eat out or with the whole clan for every meal.

Though they're tough to track down late in the season -- 5% of vacation rental property owners like to keep those houses to themselves for the holiday -- there are still deals to be had. They're only sweetened when properties on sites such as HomeAway or


s FlipKey have amenities travelers are looking for, including a kitchen of their own (21%), a pool/hot tub (12%) or even laundry facilities (11%) that aren't vulnerable to distant relatives sifting through your unmentionables while making room for a load of cloth napkins.

Bed and breakfasts

The questionable quality of either of the items mentioned in the name above when staying with relatives makes these lovely little facilities even more alluring during the holiday season.

According to HomeAway subsidiary


, 75% of travelers surveyed say they'll be taking at least one trip this winter. Of those, 50% say they'll be staying at a bed and breakfast during their trip.

While destinations known for B&Bs such as Key West, Fla., Charleston, S.C., and Asheville, N.C., are in guests' winter Top 10, BedandBreakfast.com found that inns and houses in spots such as top-ranked New York City, second-place Boston and No. 4 Chicago are also in high demand. Breakfast is still a key draw for 47% of those guests, but rare urban accommodations including free on-site parking (54%) and flexible check-in (50%) are essential for the holiday home.

Travelers worried that staying at a bed and breakfast still means enduring the shared bathrooms they were trying to avoid at the relatives' place probably haven't been to a B&B in a while. Of the 13,000 properties in BedandBreakfast.com's stable, only 12% have shared bathrooms.

House swaps

It's been a full seven years since Kate Winslet and Cameron Diaz swapped upper-class homes in the $85 million online house-swapping industry infomercial

The Holiday

, but the idea is still catching on.


, for example, saw its membership jump from 20,000 back in 2008 to more than 40,000 last year. It's not so great that you're letting a stranger into your home for days at a time with license to use a bunch of your stuff. The flipside and ultimate countermeasure is that you're doing the same with someone elses place. If you're OK with handing over the keys and laying out or parting with a few guest linens while you're gone and giving someone the key for a few days, the perks include access to homes in New York, San Francisco, London, Paris and thousands of other properties in more than 100 countries. Plus, according to the folks at HomeExchange, 20% of home swaps include a car swap as well.

While some home-swap sites have a free option for people who aren't posting their own properties,


charges $93 per year or up to $185 for a three-year plan. HomeExchange charges $120 a year for listings, but also offers a three-month plan for about $48.


With each disruption, backlash follows.

Airbnb and similar sites including


got travelers into cities on the cheap by letting folks crash on a futon for $10 a night and take over apartments when the owners arent around.

Offerings also include private islands, treehouses, rooms, boats and igloos, but those aren't what earned Airbnb a subpoena and some unwanted attention from New York State's Attorney General back in October. The AG is seeking the records of the city's 225,000 Airbnb users and information on 15,000 Airbnb properties there, saying it runs afoul of a 2010 law that prohibits subletting a property for less than 30 days. Hotel operators, meanwhile, say the system allows property owners to duck hotel taxes while making a profit through vacation rentals.

Airbnb head of global policy David Hantman doesn't think much of New York's "fishing expedition" and vowed the company will fight the AG's subpoena with everything it has. Meanwhile, the New York hotel industry has made noise about filing a class action against Airbnb demanding that hosts pay their taxes just as hotels do.

So maybe New York isn't the best place to try out this service in the immediate future -- especially if you're a New Yorker who doesn't want his or her information passed around like a bowl of holiday biscuits. But the pricing that's rankling hotel owners is great for property renters. It lets them stay in funky little corners of the world for less than the price of a hotel room and lets a property owner or renter -- the latter being the key legal hangup that, understandably, has some landlords upset -- recoup some of their costs. If you're looking for a way out of a relative's stuffy suburban subdivision and into a city known for its wealth of holiday activity -- or even if you just want to come and go without being interrogated each time -- such rental services are a nice deal while you can get them. If this is their last holiday season, make the most of it.

-- Written by Jason Notte in Portland, Ore.

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Where to Eat now in N.J.: the 10 Hottest Restaurants for July
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The steak, cooked to your liking, cuts like butter and meshes exquisitely with your over-easy eggs.Outside of weekend brunch, Molos also does a Sunday lobster feast ($39), and itserves up some great classic Greek dishes such as taramasalata (carp roe mousse, $6) to saganaki (graviera cheese and sun-dried figs flambeed with brandy, $14) to paidakia (lamb chops, $39). 1 Pershing Road, Weehawken. 201-223-1200.BRASSERIE 513: The name of the restaurant, located in quaint Califon in western Jersey, may have its origins in the French vocabulary, but the menu here is a blend of American, Italian and Mediterranean cuisine. The pasta portion of the menu diverges from your traditional Italian fare and goes withmore eclectic items such asfilet mignon ravioli ($21), gorgonzola gnocchi ($21) and spinach and mascarpone ravioli ($20). 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The quesadillas suiza ($6-$8.50) are massive and bursting with flavor. The addition of crema inside the quesadilla, instead a dollop on the outside asmany places do, createsan extra layer of gooey delight to the tried and true Mexican staple. Tacoria serves burritos two ways --traditional form, or "box form." The box form is basically a deconstructed burrito with no tortilla included. The flavor is massive, and it's definitely good for those looking to cut carbs. For sides, you cannot go wrong with the Mexican street corn ($3) which is smothered in Cotija cheese and chipotle aioli (be warned, this can get spicy). Also, the chips and guac ($3.50) -- muy bueno. 56 Easton Avenue, New Brunswick. 732-317-2070.CAPITAL CRAFT: The craft movementisn't just a bar-specific thing. Sure, Capital Craft, located on Route 22 in Green Book, has a plethora of craft beers on tap and in bottle. 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Flying Is an Adventure
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We've all seen them, those crazy stories in the sidebars of internet news pages. Recently, I was reading a CNN.com story online when I noticed a list of "More from CNN Video" which included:"What crazy thing has happened on an airplane now?" I thought to myself as I skipped over the possibility of seeing the person Anthony Weiner was sexting. People do some amazing things on airplanes. It turns out a woman sat down in a seat next to a man and quite quickly not just nodded off, but her head landed in his lap. Awkward.He tried getting her to sit back up. No luck. So of course he did the next best thing: he filmed a video of the situation with his phone, maybe to prove it really happened or maybe to see how many views he could get because he posted the video on YouTube. Somehow the video made its way from YouTube to CNN. It turns out that after a few attempts to get her out of his lap he finally succeeded. She solved the problem for him by promptly tilting over into the lap of the guy on her other side.With all the time in the world to think about it, my Monday morning quarterback decision would be to push the call button and get a flight attendant to help get the lady out of my lap and recline her seat so she could continue her nap without spending the flight in my lap. Flying is an adventure for sure. It used to be glamorous. Passengers dressed up, flight attendants served mini but elegant meals with real cutlery and cloth napkins, and Pan Am would make up your berth for your overnight flight. Not so today - where the closest thing to a berth is the lap next door. What stories do you have about the unbelievable, amazing things you've seen airline passengers do? Leave your story in a comment below.
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